
The tranquility envelops me as I sit on our welcoming deck, a silent observer of nature’s symphony. The mesmerizing dance of hummingbirds, each a fleeting jewel in flight, shares the stage with an array of other avian performers. They weave intricate patterns through the air, their melodies harmonizing with the whispers in the wind and the sounds of the butterfly bush they flutter in.
In this corner of the countryside, we’ve carved out our haven to savor the exquisite tapestry of the natural world. The rhythmic cadence of life unfolds before my eyes, punctuated by the playful hops of rabbits and the graceful passage of deer, their elegance a living testament to the beauty surrounding us.
Living in our little place in the world allows us to bask in the wonder that springs from every corner. The boundless skies stretch overhead, an ever-changing canvas painted with the hues of dawn and dusk. The symphony of crickets and frogs serenades us at night, a lullaby that whispers of the mysteries hidden within the folds of the earth.
While we relish this solitude, we’re not alone in this sanctuary. Neighbors, though comfortably distant, share our enchanting slice of existence. They, too, bear witness to the drama that unfolds daily, each ripple of life’s current merging with theirs in a delicate balance.
As I watch the hummingbirds darting between feeders, a fierce determination evident in their swift maneuvers, I’m reminded that even in these seemingly untouched pockets of nature, there exists a microcosm of struggles. The fierce competition for sustenance mirrors the eternal tussle for survival, a reminder that even amid the serenity, the currents of life surge with both harmony and discord.
In the grand theater of existence, nature showcases its captivating performances, complete with moments of unity and instances of unrest. As I sit here, enveloped in the embrace of this rural haven, I find solace in the realization that life’s complexities are as woven into the fabric of the natural world as the threads of a spider’s web glistening in the morning dew.

The little one in my picture believes this feeder is hers and no one else should come to share. She is fierce in her stance when another tries to approach, and soon they realize it is not worth the fight. There is always plenty of food for them to share, but their instinct is to protect what they believe is theirs to have to survive.
In our pursuit of a more peaceful existence, we must recognize that the path is not paved through strife or the imposition of our desires onto others. Neither is it achieved by surrendering our aspirations to accommodate the wishes of others solely. Instead, the essence of true harmony lies in discovering a shared strand, much like the delicate web woven by a spider.
Just as a spider tirelessly weaves its web, continuously extending its threads to create a unified structure, so must we seek to find that common thread that binds us all. It is within the interconnectedness of this shared thread that we unearth the strength of unity, much like the seemingly fragile string that, when woven together with countless others, forms the unbreakable foundation of the spider’s web.
Embracing this philosophy, we can each contribute to the tapestry of tranquility in our world. By nurturing empathy and understanding, we foster an environment where differing perspectives are acknowledged and respected. Instead of battling to assert our desires, we can engage in constructive dialogues that lead to solutions that honor the well-being of all. Through compromise and cooperation, we strengthen the bonds of our shared humanity, just as the spider’s silk intertwines to build a sturdy web.
In our quest for a more peaceful existence, let us remember the intricate artistry of the spider’s web and the lesson it imparts. By embracing the notion of a common thread that weaves through us all, we embark on a journey toward a world where harmony and unity prevail. Just as the spider’s web endures and thrives by bringing together its delicate threads, so can we build a future founded on collective strength and understanding.
- Begin with a common thread (Idea)
- What do we believe (Foundation of beliefs/values)
- Why do we need this (Facts about the points to understand the why)
- How will this make me and others feel (Understand the importance of the feelings of others-How can we approach change without damaging feelings?)
- How will this make me and others safe? (Provide all of the ways this will provide safety to everyone. The need for this idea to happen will make what safety improvements…..
- Stick with facts, Ask questions, Respond and not React, Gather all of the facts and communicate clearly.
My Two Rule Philosophy can be applied to all aspects of life. If we are able to teach this process to children at an early age, they will be able to grow with the process in a growth mindset. Children will learn to step up as leaders and to respond to challenges instead of reacting. By learning a rhythm of action steps with collaboration, debate, and understanding, better outcomes are ahead.
Be the solution daily in a world that needs it! #TwoRules, #Bethesolutiondaily